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Understanding Children’s Temperament & Behaviors

Pablee Wong, MC, RCC, RMFT, RPT-S

What is temperament?

Temperamental characteristics are present at birth. Temperament influences how children behave toward individuals and objects in their surrounding environments. Temperament also influences how we are affected by the environment and external circumstances. Temperament differences can help explaining the reasons why some people respond to many stresses and do well while some others have a difficult time. Differences in temperament can be seen as early as infancy. Some infants can be fussy, very sensitive to noises, easily startled or upset. While some infants are observed to be calm, mellow and can quickly adapt to regular routines. Children are born with their natural style of interacting with or reacting to people, places, and things.

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如何處理父母與子女的衝突

文章作者: VIvian Chan 卑詩註冊臨床心理輔導員

隨著年齡的增長﹐孩子逐漸有自己的主張﹐見解﹐但卻未必與父母的想法相同﹐在父母的眼中﹐孩子永遠是孩子﹐現代父母必需了解孩子的想法﹐進行良好的溝通﹐以免產生親子衝突。

良好親子關係之要素

  • 尊重
  • 信任
  • 關心但不干涉
  • 分享彼此之間的感受
  • 培養孩子的價值觀念

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什麼是親子遊戲輔導 (Filial Therapy)?

遊戲治療師另外的工作是幫助父母學會了解子女的內心世界, 及訓練父母去掌握基本遊戲輔導的技巧。很多的 研究指出 父母本身其實更能有效地幫助子女提昇他們 的自信和肯定。 親子遊戲能促進相互關係, 協助與子女溝通, 讓一家人 學會在遊玩中找出突破問題的方法。

親子遊戲輔導的目的是訓練父母觀察子女行為和內心世界, 父母從而授予接納及提供 適當的反應。透過遊戲的過程讓家長能夠與子女得到同樣樂趣。家長同時亦能夠學掌握適當的技巧與子女聯繫。

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