Vancouver Counselling & Therapy: The Wishing Wells Counselling Service

By Pablee Wong, MC, RCC, RMFT, RPT-S

What constitutes an affair? The kind or the form of the affair your partner or spouse was engaged in may not be the most important issue. What matters the most is that the trust is broken in a committed and intimate relationship. An affair can be a sexual or emotional relationship outside of a committed relationship. It can also be pornographic addiction or online chatting with another person. Discovering your spouse’s affair with another person is a devastating and shocking experience. Infidelity is a very challenging and painful issue for a couple to face. When you find out that your spouse has been unfaithful, you will likely be experiencing various emotional and physical reactions. Feeling betrayed can be a very overwhelming and crippling experiences. The discovery of an affair may numb your senses or even fill you with tremendous rage.
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The following links lead to PDF articles of press interviews with some of our therapists on select topics. To view these documents you may need to download Adobe Reader.
下面的中文專題文章是一些記者採訪我們有關於輔導治療的主題。
要查看這些文件，您可能需要下載PDF格式條款 Adobe Reader.

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9大秘訣讓愛情保鮮 - 9 Tips for building healthy relationships
Tuesday, February 10, 2009 - Ming Pao Daily News | D1
2009 年 2 月 10 日 星期二 - 明報 | 醫健

玩的力量 - The Power of Play (上)
Sunday, June 7, 2009 - Ming Pao Daily News | D1
2009 年 6 月 7 日 星期日 - 明報 | 生活派

玩的力量 - The Power of Play (下)
Sunday, June 14, 2009 - Ming Pao Daily News | D1
2009 年 6 月 14 日 星期日 - 明報 | 生活派

By Rosamond Chan M.C., R.C.C.

It is impossible to avoid adversity. It is also our natural tendency to get rid of the negative feelings associated with adversity. As an automatic response, we may try to blame others or the situation and hope to feel “better”:

• “My boss made me so mad!”
• “The financial situation makes me worry.”
• “If my family can be more understanding, I will feel less shameful about the lay-off.”

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